Saturday, May 22, 2010

Its called 'ShAdi' dear Heena

Nowdays marraige fever is going on. somebody and other is going to marry and these sweet ppl coardilly invited me..(feeling great, to enjoy there happiness) but u knw Some issues u can not tackle..even u r too inteligent. last time I went to my friends wedding, fortuanaly it is on tuesday which is my weekly off. I entered in hall, searching rajiya who is bride. But her mother saw me and she rushed to me. she took me to one lady. And told her about me then she whispered in her ears that she is the one whom i told u last night (which i could hear). I understood what the meaning of this meeting. I exreamly felt nervous and wanted to ran away as d lady was constantly staring me. maine khala se kaha ok mai rajiya se milti hu. so she told ok par tumhara biodata lakar dena beti. i just nod my head with total confusion. To my unfortuante my sister was with me. and she was whitnessed the whole situation. The whole shadi d l lady stared me aur jab hme pata ho ki kisik najar hmpar hai to hm uska ehssas bhi hme pura time hota rahta hai!!! rajiya ki shadi to bahot hi acchi hui. then we went to home and as i was sured shirin will definately tell abt this to parents and it happened but ladka bangolereme doctor tha or mummy papa ne khud hi inkar kar diya tha. (tabhi sonchu wo aaurat kyo itna gaur kar rahi thi I am not very good looking but ...being dark i looked like south indian na!!!!). waise koi na koi aakar is bare me puchata rahta hai beta kaisa ladka chahiye tumhe...sach kahu even i dont knw.. just itna jante hai ki should be understanding. par ye satisfactory answer kisiko lagta hi nahi. pahele fufu ne fir dadane, ekbar chachine, taine...list unlimited turn by turn sabhine..aur ab paraso parso rajuchachane pareshan kiya.. kahne lage kya bete tu thikse kuch bolti hi nahi. bahot pareshan kiya.fir unhone kaha ab itna bata....tumhe tumhare fieldse chahiye kya??? I was so shocked..maine aisa kuch sachme deside kiya hi nahi hai..nahi socha..mere blank chehre ko dekhakar wahase gussa hokar chale gaye aur kaha jb man kare bata dena....sachme field and profession does nt matter...should be understanding...par no one undestand me on this issue...

Khair shadi ke bareme kai aise silsile hue...I rememberd the day when 1 st time "dekne ka" programme honewala tha. collegese lot ne par muzhe achanak ye batatya gaya tha. And mai jo rone lagi bas... mumy papa k sath dada-dadi aur chacha ki halat kharab hui thi mujhe samjhate samjhate. Kahne lage dekhne ka matalab shadi nahi ho jati.. rajuchacha ne bahot hi pyarse kaha tha. kuch nahi re bachhe njoy maja ata hai. (mujhe bahot gussa aya tha kya maja ye to saja hai). fir wo log aye. kon the yad nahi. kitne log the wo bhi nahi. Actually maine abtak jitane bhi log dekhne aye kabhi bhi sar upar uthaya nhi aur dekha nahi. sabse dat khai is bat par sar uthaya nahi. Actually I hate such ridiculous situation. Aur fir I belive k najar sirf usase milegi jisse milna hai,,,wo ishara allah jarur dega... so kon dekhne aya use kya dekhna??? Tai kahti hai ye tumhare life ka sawal hai dear..inta causually mat le. kon hai kya karta hai, u should knw b4 hand. but mera approch badala nahi.really i hate it. fine. to dekhne aai hui ek mohtrama andar kichen me ayi janha kahde khade me bore ho rahi thi. unohne mujhe hat dikhane k liye kaha, alatpalat dekha. fir pair. i stared with full of anger. mujhe ek to pahle hi is chheese ka gussa uparse aisa approch. par ye bat ma ko bhi achhi nahi lagi. i remembered i was so imature 4 this situation...still it continous...my approch is not changed yet, i ger frusteted, nurvoused and tensed. (life ka sawal hota hai yar aise kaise dekhnese pata chalega and again shadi no doubt ek juwa hai...mila accha to thik nahi to......) but that imaturty make me sudden mature. As i got to knw (which i knw 4m my birth) that i am not great looking girl.. my colour complexion is dark, features are really good but no one go beyond dark ness (aur hmebhi aisa koi nahi chahiye jo hmre jajbatose jyada looks par gaur kare). basically i got to knw i m not shadi type material as 1st thing is mera rang, fir mera journalism ke fieldme hona and more than that mai khud bhi typical type ladki nahi hu....Ye bat mujhe pahle hi meeting ne sikhai aur still continous....aur ye sachme pata chala dekhne aye ka matlab shadi nahi hoti. Taklif sirf is bat ki hai log jab mere parents ko kahte ki apki beti sawali hai (in bracket unhe kali hi kahna hota hai) bura lagta hai are unhe nahi pata kya hm kaise hai, kya hai..beti hai unke pata to hoga hi na.. forget it....

Chaliye ek majedar kissa batate hai...dekhne wale program ka. actually my sister-brother made it. May ka mhina tha. fufuk bachhe aye hue the. asif, sahil, mohsin, noman, yasmin shirin to thi hi gharpe. gharpe koi nahi tha. inlogo k siway. to hm bachhe companiki masti chal rahi thi. fir dadi k gharse sahil aya kahne laga didi koi to aye hai, shayad mehman anewale hai. as soon as i got upset. fir mummy papa pahele aye bcoz both were sure ki hmne gharka chidyaghar banaya hoga. 5 min me sub thik kiya. fir timepass k liye hm log sarbat banane ka progrm karnewale the so we went into kichen. hm log jaise kichen me gaye so called mehman log aye. hm sabko ander hi rukane kaha. sarbat ban chuka tha 5 logoka to use waisehi rakhne ke liye kaha tha. dont remember ki we kitane the par 3 pakd lete hai. then my parents, my dada-dadi, pintu chacha and all these bachhe. imagine kitne log. fir sarbat diya gaya 3, dada ko 1, 1 kisine pi liya tha. pintuchacha ander aye kahne lage are mummy ne kaha hai aur banao. gusse me jawab diya nimbu nahi hai. par mehman bhi hat me glass liye baithe rahe the ki anderse baki logoka intejam hoga. aise waqt bhi mera dimag daudne laga tha actually gusseme hi maine kaha ab ek hi kam kar sakte hai glass me pani bhar kar lejaya jay. chacha ko bhi achhi lagi idea. maja karne kuch bhi acchha lagta hai. baki sub hasne lage the par thikse has bhi nahi par rahe the. to finally mumy-papa aur dadi inko glass me pani bheja gaya. par hmri sase atki hui thi kyonki papa kisibhi waqt kah sakte the ki shakkar kam hai kya...ya fir dadi. our fate, nothing happen like this but sahilne hme sabke expression bataye...papa ne pite hi ma ko dekha.. do ghot firse sharbat ki tarah piya aur niche rakh diya glass. par abtak mumy ne piya nahi tha. our luck ki unhone kuch nahi kaha. mumy ne piya aur wo samjh gayi hmari shaitani...dadi who is most risky person..usne 1 jhatke me sarbat ko pani ki tarah piya jo pani hi tha....mehman jane k bad mygod hum log kitna has rahe the.. aur shaitani kam ki thi isliye kisine kuch kaha bhi nahi. mehman ko bahar tak chhodne gaye papa akar puchne lage...sarbat kya bana tha pani hi lag raha tha...bus is bat par no one control loughing including dada-dadi...

Waise abt wedding point of view, abt better half, i have too much fantasies and which i really believe......intersting kalapanaye hai..friends kahte hai dear heena it just happen in imagination aur dream but not in reallity....hoga bhi sahi..par kon jane fantasies come true in my life...just believe in postivism. aur mai bharosa karti hu something in differnt. well unsab chijo ke liye koi aur BLOG ...ab nahi!!!!!

1 comment:

  1. Taht's so nice. some time i laughlot and some time i became serious wah heena bahut khub.

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